Looking for something to do TODAY on what is supposed to be a nice Saturday afternoon. Come check out the Family Fun Day for theNEW AntiBullying and Leadership Center being held at Park 33 in Freehold. The venue was changed due to the overwhelming support that this event has gotten from vendors, businesses and the community.
Anti-Bullying has become a cause near and dear to my heart after learning that my daughter, Belinda, was a victim of bullying when she attended public high school several years ago. Hers was a positive outcome and I attribute a lot of it to to the various sports activities that she was involved with OUTSIDE of school.
I will be partying Thirty One style with 20% of all orders taken being donated to this AMAZING non-profit organization. Stop by the table and you will also have a chance to win a $25 gift certificate to purchase your Thirty One favorites. There are over 25 vendors who will be joined by celebrity supporters like:
*Rocky MARCIANO JR *Boxing Champ Ray MERCER *UFC Legend Dan SEVERN *Broadcaster/MMA Journalist Mike STRAKA *Bellators' Phillipe NOVER *NJ State Athletic Commissioner Chief Counsel Nick LEMBO *Actor Josh FLITTER *Actor Jose HERNANDEZ Jr *Handicapped Heroes Wrestlers Zach GOWEN & Greg IRON *Actress/Entertainment Reporter Chelsea LINDER *Miss Teen NJ 2010 Erica SYZMANSKI *Miss National Sweetheart 2012 Courtney BAXTER *MS NY United States 2012 Jeannette JOSUE *Miss NY 2011 Kaitlin MONTE and many more
For those of us who grew up thinking that bullies were the BIG kids on the block that beat kids up - they were the easy ones to spot. The bullies today are so different and the victims range from our children in the community to adults in the workplace.
Check out my very first blog - Bullying: the Visible and the Invisible to read our bullying story. Stop by the table and say hello. Come out and support a great cause. Can't join the fun but would like to place an order to support Kickin' It - go to my Thirty One website under parties and shop for "Kickin It Kids Anti-Bullying Grand Opening". Orders can be placed until Sunday, May 19th at 10pm.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day.
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Saturday, May 18, 2013
Friday, April 19, 2013
More Thoughts on Bullying
Last night while I was at my part-time job, I overhead a co-worker telling the story of an incident that happened in her daughter's pre-school. Yes, I said PRE-SCHOOL.
It seems that her daughter has a favorite pair of boots, they are pink and she wears them a lot as well as a favorite blanket that she likes to take when she naps. One of the boys at the school teases her, calls her names and torment her by trying to take her blanket. When she cried, she was told to just "ignore him". I listened to the mom talk about how she didn't want to cause a problem at the school or with the other child's parents since it was just pre-school. She did talk to her daughter about how children can be mean at which point a child's favorite question "why?". On the surface or in the past, as parents and/ or teachers, we would just brush it aside and say "kids will be kids" but this is bullying.
I think back to a time in my life when my family moved from the first home I grew up in to a "new" bigger home. I think I was in 5th grade, and I definitely did not want to move. I remember going on vacation with my grandparents and returning to a new home with new bedroom furniture - all kind of exciting. Then I had to go to school! UGH! A new neighborhood but the same school district. Different bus, new kids a lot of whom were the "popular" kids or the "nerds". I never really felt like I fit in. The popular kids were mean - visions of the movie "Mean Girls" comes to mind. I made friends with one girl in the neighborhood but all of my other friends were in other parts of the township. As I think back, I was bullied - made to feel like I didn't belong, not invited to many of the parties in the neighborhood and just a general lack of confidence developed in me that has haunted me for years especially when needing to step out of my comfort zone. A desire "to be liked" set in and created years of turmoil. Did I think I was being bullied? NO! Did I tell anyone? NO! On the surface I was a normal child but on the inside there were many ghosts.
I share all of this because "bullying" comes in many forms and effects everyone differently. For some, it creates low self-esteem or the need to be accepted. For others, they withdraw and become depressed. While for others, they hide their feelings and learn to cope with the bully and the situation. Maybe if we started talking to our children when they are younger (pre-school age) about being nice to one another - you know "treat others like you would want to be treated" we could effect a positive change in the lives of our children.
Check out We're Kickin' It - AntiBullying Program. Kickin' It® is created to empower & inspire childrens’ creativity, imagination, self expression, passion, dreams and aspirations, positively impacting them to overcome negative obstacles that would inhibit them from developing into strong, independent, healthy functioning members of society.
It seems that her daughter has a favorite pair of boots, they are pink and she wears them a lot as well as a favorite blanket that she likes to take when she naps. One of the boys at the school teases her, calls her names and torment her by trying to take her blanket. When she cried, she was told to just "ignore him". I listened to the mom talk about how she didn't want to cause a problem at the school or with the other child's parents since it was just pre-school. She did talk to her daughter about how children can be mean at which point a child's favorite question "why?". On the surface or in the past, as parents and/ or teachers, we would just brush it aside and say "kids will be kids" but this is bullying.
I think back to a time in my life when my family moved from the first home I grew up in to a "new" bigger home. I think I was in 5th grade, and I definitely did not want to move. I remember going on vacation with my grandparents and returning to a new home with new bedroom furniture - all kind of exciting. Then I had to go to school! UGH! A new neighborhood but the same school district. Different bus, new kids a lot of whom were the "popular" kids or the "nerds". I never really felt like I fit in. The popular kids were mean - visions of the movie "Mean Girls" comes to mind. I made friends with one girl in the neighborhood but all of my other friends were in other parts of the township. As I think back, I was bullied - made to feel like I didn't belong, not invited to many of the parties in the neighborhood and just a general lack of confidence developed in me that has haunted me for years especially when needing to step out of my comfort zone. A desire "to be liked" set in and created years of turmoil. Did I think I was being bullied? NO! Did I tell anyone? NO! On the surface I was a normal child but on the inside there were many ghosts.
I share all of this because "bullying" comes in many forms and effects everyone differently. For some, it creates low self-esteem or the need to be accepted. For others, they withdraw and become depressed. While for others, they hide their feelings and learn to cope with the bully and the situation. Maybe if we started talking to our children when they are younger (pre-school age) about being nice to one another - you know "treat others like you would want to be treated" we could effect a positive change in the lives of our children.
Check out We're Kickin' It - AntiBullying Program. Kickin' It® is created to empower & inspire childrens’ creativity, imagination, self expression, passion, dreams and aspirations, positively impacting them to overcome negative obstacles that would inhibit them from developing into strong, independent, healthy functioning members of society.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Girl Talk
No, we are not going to "dish" about friends or family... what I want to share about is another GREAT program that is attacking "bullying" in a unique way.....
Girl Talk is an international non-profit program with a very simple premise..high school girls mentor middle school girls to help them deal with the triumphs and trails of the early teenage years. I first found out about this program at our National Conference last year when they were presented with a check to help with their efforts. In February of this year, they became a National partner with Thirty One and part of the Thirty One Gives Foundation. As a result, they received an additional $50,000 to help them in growing from their current 43 States with programs to all 50 States.
Girl Talk's mission is to help young teenage girls build self-esteem, develop leadership skills and recognize the value of community service. Since 2002, the organization has served more than 40,000 girls in 43 states and 7 countries. Girl Talk's program is twofold: high school leaders have the opportunity to share their experiences as positive role models. And middle school girls have the chance to learn that they are not alone in the issue they face and that understanding, kindness and compassion can be the foundation for better relationships with others. Research consistently reveals that grades 5-8 are the most formative years of a young person's life. We believe that the lessons learned in Girl Talk contribute to girls becoming more confident, service-minded women with better relationships. Girl Talk also helps women become stronger leaders in the work place and more effective as parents. I found only one chapter in my immediate area of Girl Talk - Toms River East.
Bullying comes in many forms - visible and invisible. Those who are bullied are not just from low income or single parent households - they come from all walks of life, even adults in the workplace. Your support of these programs is vital to the development of our future generations....
Check out these anti-bullying programs: Girl Talk ; Kickin' It, and Ringside Resue. You can hear all about Kickin' It at the Family Wellness and Beauty Day hosted by Entrepreneurial Think Tank for Moms on April 13th. Tickets are still available with all proceeds going to Kickin' It.
Girl Talk is an international non-profit program with a very simple premise..high school girls mentor middle school girls to help them deal with the triumphs and trails of the early teenage years. I first found out about this program at our National Conference last year when they were presented with a check to help with their efforts. In February of this year, they became a National partner with Thirty One and part of the Thirty One Gives Foundation. As a result, they received an additional $50,000 to help them in growing from their current 43 States with programs to all 50 States.
Girl Talk's mission is to help young teenage girls build self-esteem, develop leadership skills and recognize the value of community service. Since 2002, the organization has served more than 40,000 girls in 43 states and 7 countries. Girl Talk's program is twofold: high school leaders have the opportunity to share their experiences as positive role models. And middle school girls have the chance to learn that they are not alone in the issue they face and that understanding, kindness and compassion can be the foundation for better relationships with others. Research consistently reveals that grades 5-8 are the most formative years of a young person's life. We believe that the lessons learned in Girl Talk contribute to girls becoming more confident, service-minded women with better relationships. Girl Talk also helps women become stronger leaders in the work place and more effective as parents. I found only one chapter in my immediate area of Girl Talk - Toms River East.
Bullying comes in many forms - visible and invisible. Those who are bullied are not just from low income or single parent households - they come from all walks of life, even adults in the workplace. Your support of these programs is vital to the development of our future generations....
Check out these anti-bullying programs: Girl Talk ; Kickin' It, and Ringside Resue. You can hear all about Kickin' It at the Family Wellness and Beauty Day hosted by Entrepreneurial Think Tank for Moms on April 13th. Tickets are still available with all proceeds going to Kickin' It.
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